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Groce Funeral Home, Asheville, NC, leader in green burial

As the times change so do our needs for caring for the deceased.         Some local funeral homes like Groce Funeral Home, Asheville, NC are now offering alternative natural burials referred to as green burials.

Natural Burial like Groce Funeral Home, Asheville, NC may provideWhat are green burials?

Green burials require the adoption of burial practices that are energy-conserving, minimize waste, and do not require the use of toxic chemicals.

They prohibit the use of vaults and lids, concrete boxes, and slabs. Burial containers must be made from natural/plant derived materials and have a naturalistic appearance. They must be based on use of plants and materials native to the region and use landscape compatible with regional ecosystems. Local funeral homes have begun to incorporate these concepts such as Groce Funeral Home. Asheville, NC.

Who is interested in green burial?

  • People aged 25-44 are more interested than older age groups.
  • 44% of people who identify as spiritual (but not religious) are seriously interested compared to 20-25% of people in other faiths.
  • People who consider hiking more fun than reading, watching TV, or shopping.
  • 40%-50% of people who support an environmental organization, eat organic food or spend their money on green products.
  • 31% of people consider the environmental impact of remains one of their top 3 concerns.
  • 90% of people consider the loved one’s wishes in their top 3.

Are green burials more affordable?

Natural Burial site like Groce Funeral Home, Asheville, NC might offerAffordable North Carolina Green Funerals allow families to customize their memorial services prior to or at the graveside. Learn more and watch this trailer: A Will For The Woods.

What you can do in the way of planning, acquiring support, and finding local providers for green burial.

Groce Funeral Home, Asheville, NC is one of a select group of funeral providers approved by the Green Burial Council (www.greenburialcouncil.org) in WNC; a nonprofit organization that encourages the use of burial as a means of facilitating the restoration, acquisition, and stewardship of natural areas.

Another local facility that offers green burial is the Garden of Nature’s Renewel which is now open at Moore Funeral Home at Forest Lawn in Candler, NC, also certified by the Green Burial Council.

Green Hills Cemetery, Asheville, NC, members of the National Green Burial Council honor the balance of the land welcoming home a life well lived. They support environmentally sustainable alternatives. Within their historic cemetery they have established areas that are logical choices for green burials.

Education appears to be a key factor in creating awareness around alternative forms of burial. Contact any of the following local providers; Groce Funeral Home, Asheville NC, Moore Funeral Home at Forest Lawn, NC or Green Hills Cemetery, NC, for additional information on how they may help you in providing a natural burial for yourself or your loved one.

A Special Dove Story…Update

Mareta 4-3-13

Mareta 4-3-13

Perhaps you read the previous post of this amazing story of the white dove that survived a hawk attack last month during a white dove release on March 9th, 2013.  As I previously stated, occasionally there are attacks from predators and this is something we cannot avoid if these birds are given the freedom to fly, which is their nature and delight.

Groce Funeral Home graciously shared a version of this story on their GroceFuneral Home/facebook page if you are interested in reading it.

I would like to share the following exert from their post: Mrs. Morgan’s daughter has written to us (Groce Funeral Home) and says, “Dale, I can’t tell you how much this has meant to my family. God works in mysterious ways. This bird so represent’s my mom’s strength and fighting spirit. What a blessing!”

Mareta is continuing to gain strength each day since her incredible attack. She is a small dove, petite in size, yet shows great tenacity in her ability to recover from her almost fatal incident.

I saw Mareta the other day flying within the loft and enjoying the outside porch.  Her wound, although visible, is healing quite well.  I can see new pin feathers surrounding the affected area.

And just today I watched as Mareta ventured out for the first time since her attack from the loft into the yard to enjoy the wet grass from the rain with the other birds. Then suddenly in a moments time I saw her take flight with the flock.                                                                                                
Amazing! Wow, in just 3 weeks, Mareta is back at flying!                              
She circled twice but she knew her limits returning to the loft…for supper.                                         What a spirit she has for survival! Yeah!

 

 

A special dove story…

ErwinTenn6-12Occasionally I am asked if my birds (Rock Doves/White Homing Pigeons) do not make it home.  I would not be honest if I said this never happens. It’s a great big sky out there and my birds are flying in it on any given day.

As a farmer (bird breeder), there are going to be some losses naturally as it is a simple known fact that birds are part of the greater food chain, unfortunately.  It has also been recorded that in nature birds do not often survive beyond their first year. They experience a very real threat of predators, weather conditions, the elements, sickness, starvation, and human intervention, any of which may contribute to their death.

Here in Woodfin, NC where I raise, breed, and train my birds, they are allowed to come and go freely from their loft on any given day unless we have an important ceremony to attend.  Allowing them this freedom helps my birds to be healthier and more adept in nature and capable of out-flying their natural predators. On the other hand, being somewhat domesticated, they have the protection and safety of food and housing and a dedicated care taker, me. This does not change the fact that they share the sky with their greatest predator, the hawk. This means that occasionally a bird will be part of the food chain which is something we must learn to accept as farmers.

This leads me to share a very special story: On March 9th of this year I was asked to do a graveside service for an elderly woman who had passed away.  Upon opening the final release basket, as planned, the small white dove who represented the spirit or soul of this beloved woman flew overhead swooping down. From a distance it appeared she had been taken down by a hawk attack.  The three other birds released all made there way home safely. This was a very disheartening incident as some members of the family had seen the bird take a fall.  Needless to say, I was quite upset, both for my bird and for this family.

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2 days after her attack

The hawk attack at a funeral service seldom if ever happens however it did happen this time.  Following the service, my intuition told me to go look for the bird in the cemetery and luckily I found her.  As I approached, I saw the hawk was standing on what I thought was a dead bird. Seeing me coming, the hawk took flight. Much to my surprise, I found the dove quite alive but with a serious hole in the front of her chest.  I picked her up thinking she would pass before I got home. Oddly enough, she looked quite alert.
I drove home thinking that this seriously injured dove would not survive an hour.      I put her in a warm safe pet container.  Again I was surprised to find her quite alive and alert the next morning.  After two days passed, she was eating, drinking water and appeared to be healing.  This was a very good sign.  Incredibly she had survived and now I suspected she would fully recuperate.                                                     At this point, I proceeded to contact the distraught family through the online guest book that Groce Funeral Home provided.  I explained online that the dove who was attacked at Mareta Morgan’s service had indeed survived.  About a week later I was contacted by a very appreciative family member, Mareta’s daughter.  I told her that I named the dove after her mother who the dove had represented in the service.  I felt she somehow became a symbol of Mareta’s tenacity.  Ms. Morgan’s family member, Carol, agreed that this was an amazing turn of events.

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1 week later

She responded in an email, in her words:                            You see, my mom’s hallmark trait was fighting through adversity and thriving despite all odds. You performed a beautiful service and we appreciated every moment of it. That bird is indeed a testament to mama’s tenacity. Please do keep me posted about the winged “Mareta” – I can’t tell you how much that picture made my whole week!  Thanks Julia.  You are wonderful. I hope that one day I can find something to do that means so much to people when they are grieving. Carol

Today, March 21st, 2013

Today, March 21st, 2013

In conclusion I would like to add that this has also been an amazing experience for me.  Through the symbolism of this dove  and her amazing recovery, this story holds a very special meaning.  Maybe it is about trusting my intuition. Maybe it’s about survival.  It tells me about the spirit that thrives in spite of all odds.  It reminded me to follow my instinct and intuition.  I think we can each find our own meaning here. I have found mine.

I am happy to report that Mareta, the dove, is now flying in her loft, sitting on the open porch and enjoying her flock and family once again, making a complete and full recovery. And I am so happy to share this incredible story that has a happy ending because sometimes we can find happy endings even in loss. I would like to offer my sincere condolences to Mareta Morgan’s family for their loss.  And I hope that somehow they have found peace in some small way by this story.  I thank them for allowing me to tell it.                           Julia Gaunt of Asheville White Dove Releases